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ssurgulYou remember when I said rolling in glass would be preferrable?
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aerowolf has decided now to thoroughly and soundly fuck me over. I'm not the first. Far from it, in fact. However, as I mentioned earlier I found out that he was trying to jump ship on his debts to me. These are a car loan (that I signed for him, true, in order to get him a significantly cheaper loan than what he was paying. Stupidly, I actually listened to him when he insisted it be for the full amount the car was listed for, rather than what was actually due on it.), a gold card (which I also signed for him, in order to pay off other outstanding debt as a much lower interest rate), an outstanding $450 he owes me for blatantly stealing it from a shared account we had that was slated for the timeshare I purchased with him because he brought up a lot of pressure to buy, and the monies he promised to pay back for the monthly expenses he incurred 'for' me.
He promised, when he moved out over a year ago, to get the loans out of my name. He promised to deliver a PoA to me to sell the timeshare, which has been on the market for a few months now. He promised to not declare bankruptcy because this would soundly fuck me over financially because when he does, the bank is going to come after me for the monies.
He never got the loans out of my name. He has yet to even deliver a simple PoA. He is now in the process of declaring bankruptcy, without answering any of my emails or having provided me any information on where or how to contact him. He has fallen 60 days past due on the loans at the bank, and has not told them how to find him since he moved in with this new guy.
Could things get worse? Actually, they could. People could continue to support this person in his continual efforts to lie, cheat, steal, and manipulate his way through life without a single effort at being responsible, holding to a promise, or developing anything other than his purest narcissistic pleasure principle. It floors me that he has done this sort of thing for years, he has blatantly stolen monies from others, and he has subtly stolen money as well. And yet, somehow, he washes himself clean every time, and people continue to believe him when he claims the theft was all 'necessary' (the line he used with me was 'Well, I knew it was wrong, but I needed it.' or 'I knew it was wrong, but oh well.') and that he REALLY wants this time to be the time he's going to change.
I'm sick of it, if you couldn't tell.
If anyone knows how to get ahold of him, I would very much appreciate any information toward that. His promises hold no weight, period. His mind is a maze of blind alleys and pitfalls that would make even Indiana Jones quiver in terror and run screaming to the hills.
And, though it's not nearly so useful, I've also set pretty much every conversation half I have to public, because even those have a good deal of information in them. Please be aware that some of the replies he's made over time, which truly show how fucked up he is (Answering questions never asked, refuting statements never made, or simply completely ignoring the post entirely) have 'magically' disappeared, and not by my hand. These entries are from last year, from around this time, back to March-ish. The only way to battle this much deception is with truth, and to be able to garner as much 'Yeah, he stole from me too!' as I can find.
Well, I found out this weekend, that the ex, Winged/Greybolt/
aerowolf has decided now to thoroughly and soundly fuck me over. I'm not the first. Far from it, in fact. However, as I mentioned earlier I found out that he was trying to jump ship on his debts to me. These are a car loan (that I signed for him, true, in order to get him a significantly cheaper loan than what he was paying. Stupidly, I actually listened to him when he insisted it be for the full amount the car was listed for, rather than what was actually due on it.), a gold card (which I also signed for him, in order to pay off other outstanding debt as a much lower interest rate), an outstanding $450 he owes me for blatantly stealing it from a shared account we had that was slated for the timeshare I purchased with him because he brought up a lot of pressure to buy, and the monies he promised to pay back for the monthly expenses he incurred 'for' me.He promised, when he moved out over a year ago, to get the loans out of my name. He promised to deliver a PoA to me to sell the timeshare, which has been on the market for a few months now. He promised to not declare bankruptcy because this would soundly fuck me over financially because when he does, the bank is going to come after me for the monies.
He never got the loans out of my name. He has yet to even deliver a simple PoA. He is now in the process of declaring bankruptcy, without answering any of my emails or having provided me any information on where or how to contact him. He has fallen 60 days past due on the loans at the bank, and has not told them how to find him since he moved in with this new guy.
Could things get worse? Actually, they could. People could continue to support this person in his continual efforts to lie, cheat, steal, and manipulate his way through life without a single effort at being responsible, holding to a promise, or developing anything other than his purest narcissistic pleasure principle. It floors me that he has done this sort of thing for years, he has blatantly stolen monies from others, and he has subtly stolen money as well. And yet, somehow, he washes himself clean every time, and people continue to believe him when he claims the theft was all 'necessary' (the line he used with me was 'Well, I knew it was wrong, but I needed it.' or 'I knew it was wrong, but oh well.') and that he REALLY wants this time to be the time he's going to change.
I'm sick of it, if you couldn't tell.
If anyone knows how to get ahold of him, I would very much appreciate any information toward that. His promises hold no weight, period. His mind is a maze of blind alleys and pitfalls that would make even Indiana Jones quiver in terror and run screaming to the hills.
And, though it's not nearly so useful, I've also set pretty much every conversation half I have to public, because even those have a good deal of information in them. Please be aware that some of the replies he's made over time, which truly show how fucked up he is (Answering questions never asked, refuting statements never made, or simply completely ignoring the post entirely) have 'magically' disappeared, and not by my hand. These entries are from last year, from around this time, back to March-ish. The only way to battle this much deception is with truth, and to be able to garner as much 'Yeah, he stole from me too!' as I can find.